Posted by eugenia on November 28, 2004, at 11:16:43
In reply to Re: Need advice on therapist boundaries » eugenia, posted by fallsfall on November 28, 2004, at 10:53:52
Actually, she encouraged me to get married. It was difficult because my parents really wanted me to get married as well. A major issue was that I really did not feel attracted to him and did not enjoy sex with him. She told me to see a sex therapist and told me that marriage was about friendship and not sex and that she and her husband only had sex twice a month. By the way, I generally am a pretty sexual person.
I am pretty sophisticated so in retrospect I am amazed that I stayed with her.
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