Posted by pegasus on November 28, 2004, at 18:53:09
In reply to Re: Different emphasis on attachment - pegusus » pegasus, posted by Dinah on November 26, 2004, at 7:25:23
Hi Dinah,
Good point. I should have remembered this about your relationship with your therapist, as a good contrary example. I think you're absolutely right about finding what you need at the time, and how that can change.
I was talking about this with my new T the other day, and she said that she thought I was developing an attachment to her, but that I was a lot less dependent than I had been with my old T. Which I think is correct. I think dependency and attachment are not necessarily the same thing. And it feels great to be finding the one, which is helpful, without so much of the other.
pegasus
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