Posted by shrinking violet on January 26, 2005, at 17:08:48
In reply to Re: i don't want a new T » crushedout, posted by terrics on January 25, 2005, at 18:56:15
Hi Terrics....I'm assuming you addressed your reponse to Crushed by accident :-)
No, I'd never ask her to meet me in any kind of personal way, even after we terminated. I know that would never happen. She said I could write to her, and I should be grateful she's even allowing that. It just hurts, that's all. I'm glad it worked out for you and your ex T.
Take care.
SV
> Hi Crushed, It would probably not be bad to ask her if she would like to go out for coffee the worst she can say is no. If she is a real professional she will probably say no. I would respect her for that..She could lose her license. The problem however is that you may get hurt again. I had worked with my T when she was a SW in the same hosp where i was a nurse. So after I went to her for therapy which lasted 2 yrs. she asked me out for lunch. Now we go out on a regular basis. I 'love' her and am glad she is my friend. These are unusal circumstances though. Terrics
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