Posted by daisym on May 13, 2005, at 10:39:43
In reply to Re: Weird T question, posted by happyflower on May 13, 2005, at 10:34:08
You should ask him and tell him what you've noticed. It brings your concern about him, and your attachment into the room. He'll probably ask you what you imagine, but it really might be a good discussion. Pretending there isn't anything going on gets in the way.
I've asked a couple of tough health questions of my therapist. Only one he didn't answer and he told me why. I have so many health issues to deal with in my life that I project this stuff on to him. It is part of my need to take care of him too.
It isn't prying if it is in the room with you.
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