Posted by bent on February 15, 2006, at 16:04:43
In reply to Re: on knowing 'too much' about your T » bent, posted by fairywings on February 15, 2006, at 15:45:53
Yes!! I always think it would probably be much better to let her know rather than have her see me in her neighborhood. I'd be so afraid she'd flip and think I was a stalker or something. I have seen her one time, it was at night and she was walking her dog. I am only in that area maybe 2-4 times a year but still. And honestly it has caused some stress for me. Like, when this cousin had a pampered chef party and said she was inviting friends and neighbors!! I nearly had an anxiety attack on the way there figuring out what my plan would be if my T was there! I even had a dream about it. I really should tell her about this. I just dont know how to bring it up because the way I found out where she lived was by searching her online and it just so happened that it was near my cousin. I dont want to tell her that I was searching her. I have never told my cousin either, so she doesnt know my T lives close by and I am certain they dont know each other. Ok, sorry to go on - this just freaks me out sometimes, I have kept this secret to myself for 3 years now!!!
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