Posted by TherapyGirl on September 25, 2006, at 21:02:55
In reply to I Need some help, but be gentle..., posted by daisym on September 25, 2006, at 20:15:07
I wish I could think of something to say to fix this for you, Daisy. I know you know how much your T has been there for you and what good work you've done together. I truly believe that you have a gifted T and that he is the perfect T for you.
I think, in spite of the fears you have (and I agree with what I understood Alexandra to say -- the fears are from our earlier attachments that didn't go all that well), you have to try to remember that he tells you the truth. He's never lied to you, right? And even with this, when you asked him about it, he told you the truth, right? So why not choose to believe that he's not going to terminate your therapy?
I've felt the fear. I know it's hard to hang on to facts and reasons when you are overwhelmed by fear. But I'm here to tell you that it's worth it if you can get through this yucky part.
(((((((((Daisy)))))))
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