Posted by Happyflower on March 26, 2007, at 22:47:51
In reply to Re: Update... smiling gazo :o) » Happyflower, posted by gazo on March 26, 2007, at 21:27:39
Hi gazo,
We have more in common than you know! ;-) When I came to therapy for the first time ever 2 years ago, I could say such and such happened, blah, blah, blah, but if he asked me feelings about it, I was indifferent, almost non-feeling about the events. Now I also had recent stuff which was what brought me to therapy in the first place, but when we dug deeper, into the past is when we discovered the real reasons for my current tramua.
I also had a big list of stuff for my T to help me with, and I always questioned if I was too much for him, or is he getting sick of me, etc. Well he always replied that working with someone that has had some much tragic stuff in their life happen to them, gives him even more joy when he can help SO MUCH.
The thing about therapy though is that you don't always progess in a straight line, sometimes you go slow or backwards, sometimes you stay in place for a long time, and sometimes you are moving at the speed of sound. So it will take time specially if there is a lot to work out.A special thing I have noticed in you is that you have the drive and the williness to put yourself there and to do whatever is nessary it seems. It seems like the fact you are ready is maybe more important than who you are working with. I am excited to watch you, you have spunk! :-)
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