Posted by DAisym on July 22, 2007, at 23:11:40
In reply to Re: Needs and my situation with T.....help!! » DAisym, posted by jammerlich on July 22, 2007, at 23:00:54
Of course you can show her mine, if it helps.
I really hate that you feel like you have to do things "her way" in order to keep her happy. But at the same time, encouraging you to get out and make contact with others is a good thing. It just shouldn't threaten your relationship. There are so many things we can't talk about anywhere else - that is why you are in therapy!! Building a life and having her support go hand-in-hand, I think.
I like what red house said about self care. Wise indeed.
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