Posted by TherapyGirl on August 1, 2007, at 18:21:55
In reply to What happened, posted by jammerlich on August 1, 2007, at 8:38:29
I'm so sorry, Jammer. I, too, wish she had been more forthright with you from the beginning so that you could have made a more informed choice.
I think it's interesting that she remembers the shoulder thing differently. I wonder if she was so tuned in to your hurt and pain that it *felt* like you were asking her to do that and in her memory you did. You know what I'm saying?
But I really, really hate when Ts won't say what they mean and mean what they say. Sometimes I tell my T to "stop talking therapy-talk to me." And God knows, we've had our share of these kinds of conversations recently, where I try to get her to admit and commit to something and she won't. It's very frustrating.
But I'm not ready to give up yet. I think maybe you're not either, as painful as this is. I hope things will be clearer after tomorrow.
But it sucks right now and I'm sorry.
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