Posted by JoniS on August 23, 2007, at 9:52:41
In reply to My thoughts today, maybe trigger warnings, posted by Happyflower 1 :-) on August 23, 2007, at 6:41:47
Happyflower,
B2 is right, it is ALL on him. He messed up, and not just a little. Hold on to that REALITY and don't let yourself go into all the blaming, negative thoughts about yourself.
You never know how he will respond on Friday, so realize that you may never know all the reasons that he acted the way he did. He may even in his own mind have painted a nicer picture of how he was that day. The possibilities are endless on how he might react. So, bottom line is that you have to hold on to yourself, say to him what you need to say, but don't have any expectations from him. He was so wrong it makes me mad again to read about it again and how it has affected you.
I have hope for your new T to help you move on beyond the pain that old T caused.
Hang in there, be good to yourself! You are worth it and you are a wonderful person.
((((((HF)))))
poster:JoniS
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