Posted by JoniS on August 24, 2007, at 23:19:27
In reply to Re: hate this transference stuff » JoniS, posted by DAisym on August 24, 2007, at 23:03:43
You are always helpful. I like what you said above, to Oz. You are right.
As for me, I have managed to convince myself that I am not at all special to him and there is absolutely no way I can risk asking him to tell me. Lately I have seen him "daze off" so I know he's getting bored. I know my defenses are up, but I also know (from therapy) that I depend on the "external" for my worth, and If I don't grow up from here, I will forever be disappointed.
I do appreciate your 2 cents, always.
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