Posted by Daisym on December 7, 2007, at 1:16:39
In reply to Re: Thanks guys, today I struggle » TherapyGirl, posted by muffled on December 6, 2007, at 15:31:33
I think letting anyone close to us is scary. We worry about being left and we worry about letting them down somehow -or being too much or too hard or too boring...whatever. It is hard to keep someone who cares so "loudly" at arms length.
My therapist asked me to try and listen to my feelings and not "think" so much about what he is thinking - he said I'm projecting so much onto him and then I read it as coming from him. I think that is true.
Trust is just plain hard. But so is being alone.
So there you go.
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