Posted by fleeting flutterby on February 12, 2009, at 17:27:14
In reply to Re: What if.......... » fleeting flutterby, posted by Dinah on February 12, 2009, at 16:45:16
> Likely I would think that. But then I'd ask if that is what he meant.<<
----- Really? You really would ask him, right then and there? ....... hmmmmmm... You're so brave too!
>> He'd then likely say something like "I meant that I've taught you all I already know on this matter. From here on out we'll have to explore it together."<<---- now that does sound like a "safe" response! (one in which I wouldn't feel any pain--wish I would have thought of that in my head-- then maybe I would have asked him in the first place)
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> Do you think you'd gotten all you could from the therapy?<<
-----hmmmmm that is a good question. I know I struggled so much with him and feeling confused. He often said to me that me being confused was good--- but-- I don't know-- it never felt "safe" to me, ya know? So maybe with this particular therapist, I was at a point where I wouldn't get much more help(just can't stop thinking that I failed-- coz he has 30+ years expereince and yet I couldn't get what I'd hoped for out of this therapy-- ask myself-- "what did I do wrong?" :o( He's helped so many many people, why not me? what a bubble head I must be)flutterby-mandy :o(
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