Re: I try to never do this, but.... » Daisym

Posted by twinleaf on December 21, 2010, at 18:17:11

In reply to Re: I try to never do this, but.... » twinleaf, posted by Daisym on December 21, 2010, at 17:13:07

The enactments around mothering can be even more painful when we are feeling not just extremely angry and alone, but also guilty and envious, because in front of us is this wonderful, caring therapist trying so hard to connect, and not being able to. And it's surely our fault! They look so wonderful and perfect, while we are feeling (and looking) absolutely horrible.
A large part of the work I have done in the last three years has been just like that. When I was in the middle of it, I thought it a was absolutely endless and unbearable. But I think we have kind of worked some of it out now. I do feel a lot better. It helped, when I was at my worst, that *Dr. K* wasn't overly kind and nice!
It's a lot easier to post about these things afterwards. Sometimes it's just not possible to talk about it when you are going through it; I know I can't. Still, it means a lot to us long-time Babblers to reconnect with you, Daisy...

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