Re: I try to never do this, but.... » 10derheart

Posted by Daisym on December 27, 2010, at 0:03:49

In reply to Re: I try to never do this, but...., posted by 10derheart on December 23, 2010, at 23:56:16

Nothing to be embarrassed about. You need a witness to your pain so you don't begin to doubt yourself and the validity of the depth of your anguish. HE did this. YOU hurt. IT sucks.
Hate is the flip side of love. I agree with Dinah. Hating comes straight out of the frustration of being completely powerless in this situation. I think just like love, passionate hate feels like a fire that could consume you. I think divorce can be something like that - you wonder how on earth you could have loved this person that you now "hate" so much. And you also wonder if they ever loved you, how could they hurt you so much?
I wish I could speed up time for you. I hope Santa brought you at least a few moments of peace.

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