Posted by Daisym on November 30, 2011, at 19:04:13
In reply to Re: Male versus Female, posted by pegasus on November 30, 2011, at 11:27:43
I'm surprised - really, you haven't talked about sex/sexual feelings? I guess it depends on the issues that bring you into therapy.
The hardest part for me is that I keep landing on the same spot - because of my history, I think I'm not supposed to ever have an interest in sex, or feel aroused, etc. etc. Yet, since this doesn't seem to be true, there is an epic battle within me and so much shame. And the only way to get to the core of it is to examining both sides of these feelings and that means talking about them. I told him I want to throw a blanket over my head during sessions. His response: "Do you think I haven't heard it, felt it, done it or all of the above?"
Color me red now....
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