Posted by TamaraJ on May 16, 2005, at 10:15:50
In reply to How the day went, posted by partlycloudy on May 16, 2005, at 8:27:53
(((partlycloudy)))
Oh pc, I am so glad the weekend was a positive experience for you. I know it's hard, but please try to stop feeling ashamed and guilty about your previous failed attempts to stop drinking on your own. There is strengh in numbers, you know, and there is nothing wrong with taking hold of the strength others have to offer to help you get through the tough times and the uncertainty. Use the tools and resources that are out there. I've told you that I stopped once, twice, three times before I managed to stop for good. Alchol is, well, a bitch. It warps your mind and your perception and robs you of your self-control, self-respect and finally your self-esteem. For me, there is no other to describe it. Anyway, as far as I'm concerned, you are a winner because you continue to try to improve your life and conquer your addicition. It's tough to stop, there is no doubt about it. Alcohol becomes a friend - even if it is a fair-weather friend. It's been there when we are feeling down, when we are feeling up, when we are feeling complacent and bored. But, the relationship becomes one of love-hate I think. But, it is better to hate the booze, and what it has done to you, rather than yourself.
Hang in there pc. You are doing great - just GREAT!!!! (one day at a time - sorry for the AA speak).
All the best to you,
Tamara
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