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Re: Why bother with therapy? » stebby

Posted by corafree on August 24, 2004, at 17:10:59

In reply to Why bother with therapy?, posted by stebby on August 15, 2003, at 11:00:07

Hi. Are you talking about DBT therapy for BPersonD? I am stuck a bit, missing appts., being late, etc., and have not yet begun DBT therapy or dialectical behavioral therapy. Is this the therapy you all are discussing here? Appreciate your more current info posted here about becoming dependent (for lack of better word) on a T. My therapist and I have communicated about our feelings towards one another. I asked her how she feels about me, caucasian, middle class, born in America, while her family lives in Iran?? She explained quietly and with a kind smile that it was not an issue. I was afraid she might hold some prejudicial feelings. Also, after being 'noncompliant' (missing or being late to appts), I asked if her feelings for me had changed? I believe that we do need to connect, but it not be a 'special' relationship for her or me. If I am worried about our relationship, I just spill it out. If you are discussing dialectical behavioral therapy, or just therapy itself, I am open to any info you could share. I do have borderline personality disorder. Best wishes cf

 

Re: Why bother with therapy? » corafree

Posted by stebby on August 25, 2004, at 17:50:40

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy? » stebby, posted by corafree on August 24, 2004, at 17:10:59

> Hello,
We weren't specifically talking about DBT or BorderPers disorder although I'm sure it could apply. We were talking about transference and how difficult it is to deal with. Even though that post was a year ago, I am still struggling with it. My therapist knows, and we try to work with it. RU worried you will develop transference?
Stebby

Hi. Are you talking about DBT therapy for BPersonD? I am stuck a bit, missing appts., being late, etc., and have not yet begun DBT therapy or dialectical behavioral therapy. Is this the therapy you all are discussing here? Appreciate your more current info posted here about becoming dependent (for lack of better word) on a T. My therapist and I have communicated about our feelings towards one another. I asked her how she feels about me, caucasian, middle class, born in America, while her family lives in Iran?? She explained quietly and with a kind smile that it was not an issue. I was afraid she might hold some prejudicial feelings. Also, after being 'noncompliant' (missing or being late to appts), I asked if her feelings for me had changed? I believe that we do need to connect, but it not be a 'special' relationship for her or me. If I am worried about our relationship, I just spill it out. If you are discussing dialectical behavioral therapy, or just therapy itself, I am open to any info you could share. I do have borderline personality disorder. Best wishes cf

 

Re: Why bother with therapy?

Posted by Starlight on August 27, 2004, at 12:24:32

In reply to Why bother with therapy?, posted by stebby on August 15, 2003, at 11:00:07

Hi Stebby,
I'm sure alot of people won't like this, but I'm with you. I haven't had the transferance issues, but I'm through with therapy. I think that overall, you have to learn to love yourself, faults and all before you can move on. I think that some people really need it, as long as they think they need it, but like you said, I feel like just another client where the therapist pretends to be concerned for you, but is really just looking at you from a clinical perspective, and in the end, you're just another client coming in the swinging door.

In your case - LOVE the part of you that wants to hurt yourself. Accept and care for both parts. You might want to start studying some buddhist reading material. I'm not promoting Buddhism, but there are some wonderful approaches to handling life. Once you accept and love that part of you, you aim to deny, you can let go of the guilt and shame that you have surrounding the desire to hurt yourself. There is no guilt and shame in that - for whatever reason, you use this method as a way of both protecting yourself and reaching out to others. But you've got to dig deep and learn to recognize that spark of God that you are. There are some excellent books on Jnana Yoga as well. Jnana Yoga aims to teach full acceptance of the self so that you can learn to celebrate who you are and be released from guilt and shame.
Starlight

 

Re: Why bother with therapy?

Posted by Starlight on August 27, 2004, at 13:11:03

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy? ? stebby, posted by fallsfall on August 16, 2003, at 15:30:49

Why do you think that you focus on her that way? I'm just curious. The other thing about thereapists is that I think they tend to cultivate a relationship based on dependency, rather than to help you realize your own strength, kind of like an affirmation that you really 'need' them, rather than an affirmation that you already have everything you need, you just need to figure out how to recognize and honor every single part of you.
starlight

 

Re: Why bother with therapy? » stebby

Posted by corafree on August 27, 2004, at 14:53:15

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy? » corafree, posted by stebby on August 25, 2004, at 17:50:40

Stebby: I guess I was just trying to understand transference. Is it like, if T thinks I'm o.k., I am, and vice-versa? Did see my T wed and am going to begin DBT soon. I have seen many therapists over the past 20+ yrs and all I knew was that there were two types, the here and now kind, and the go back and find out what happened kind. I really never had the $ to go w/ the latter, and it's not very popular today. Anyway, I just need all the info and support I can get. I'm dealing with BperdonD, possibly Attention Deficit Disorder, Grief, and Chronic Pain, so I check out all these issues here. Tks cf

 

Re: Why bother with therapy? » Starlight

Posted by Susan47 on August 27, 2004, at 15:05:07

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy?, posted by Starlight on August 27, 2004, at 13:11:03

I don't think my therapist was trying to cultivate dependency, I think he was afraid of it. But it happened to some degree anyway, because of the transference.
I just finished talking with him on the telephone very briefly, he was stiff and unnatural (I heard a door opening, maybe a client walked in) but it was a quick conversation, and you know what I was thinking when I hung up? "What a silly man".
He has all his defenses up when I'm around. I'm sorry, but I think that's silly, I don't understand it, and I'm glad I don't see him anymore. Ah.
I agree with your previous post too, Starlight. It's important to love yourself and be self-dependent; the more I do that the better I'm feeling. Of course, Babble does help a lot. It's nice to see you here again Starlight. Hasn't it been a while?

 

Re: Why bother with therapy? » Starlight

Posted by stebby on August 27, 2004, at 20:33:36

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy?, posted by Starlight on August 27, 2004, at 12:24:32

Hi Starlight,
I really wish I could give up therapy, but I'm so attached it would be devastating. It does frustrate me endlessly that I am just another client coming through the door, and the attachment is so one-sided. Thanks you for the advice on the Buddhism reading. I will check it out.
Have you dealt with self-injury issues yourself? You seem to know a lot about it.
Stebby
> Hi Stebby,
> I'm sure alot of people won't like this, but I'm with you. I haven't had the transferance issues, but I'm through with therapy. I think that overall, you have to learn to love yourself, faults and all before you can move on. I think that some people really need it, as long as they think they need it, but like you said, I feel like just another client where the therapist pretends to be concerned for you, but is really just looking at you from a clinical perspective, and in the end, you're just another client coming in the swinging door.
>
> In your case - LOVE the part of you that wants to hurt yourself. Accept and care for both parts. You might want to start studying some buddhist reading material. I'm not promoting Buddhism, but there are some wonderful approaches to handling life. Once you accept and love that part of you, you aim to deny, you can let go of the guilt and shame that you have surrounding the desire to hurt yourself. There is no guilt and shame in that - for whatever reason, you use this method as a way of both protecting yourself and reaching out to others. But you've got to dig deep and learn to recognize that spark of God that you are. There are some excellent books on Jnana Yoga as well. Jnana Yoga aims to teach full acceptance of the self so that you can learn to celebrate who you are and be released from guilt and shame.
> Starlight

 

Re: Why bother with therapy?

Posted by stebby on August 27, 2004, at 20:39:55

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy? » stebby, posted by corafree on August 27, 2004, at 14:53:15

Corafree,
Transference is being in love, but its not real love, or so they say, because you are just projecting. It does start from the T thinking you are okay, making you feel accepted even though she knows all these horrible things about you. Its very seductive to have someone in a powerful role to approve of you. I guess that's why it happens to me all the time. Have you had DBT before? When were you diagnosed BordPD and how did you know?

> Stebby: I guess I was just trying to understand transference. Is it like, if T thinks I'm o.k., I am, and vice-versa? Did see my T wed and am going to begin DBT soon. I have seen many therapists over the past 20+ yrs and all I knew was that there were two types, the here and now kind, and the go back and find out what happened kind. I really never had the $ to go w/ the latter, and it's not very popular today. Anyway, I just need all the info and support I can get. I'm dealing with BperdonD, possibly Attention Deficit Disorder, Grief, and Chronic Pain, so I check out all these issues here. Tks cf
>
>

 

Re: Why bother with therapy?

Posted by allisonf on August 28, 2004, at 0:15:03

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy?, posted by stebby on August 27, 2004, at 20:39:55

Wow! I just cked in and saw this thread was going again! I often wonder how everyone has been--Dinah, fallsfall, Penny, Adia, Stebby. Hope you are all well. You were such a big support for me when I was posting a year ago.

Corafree, sorry to hear you are going thru a rough time. I would be interested to hear about the DBT.

Just an update: I am still in therapy, but the transference is a little better. I think I'm slowly starting to accept that I'm never going to be able to be anything but a client to my therapist. Honestly, I think I just hit on the right meds and that settled down my obsessive thoughts.

I would be interested to hear how some of the original posters on this thread have fared with their transference issues.

Hope everyone is doing well!

 

Re: Why bother with therapy?

Posted by angie_o_ on August 28, 2004, at 7:39:52

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy?, posted by Starlight on August 27, 2004, at 12:24:32

Hi,

I have been going on and off for the last 2 years. I usally get really stressed out after a session and can remain stirred up and upset for days after. I have changed T's to help it. I think it was my last T's fault, just what she said and did.
Now I am trying to talk about positive future things only. How to think, what to do etc..
This T is older and more assured and seems to care more about me moving on to better things instead of digging through every negative aspect of my life.
Hopefully this will renew my faith in therapy.

 

Re: Why bother with therapy? » allisonf

Posted by stebby on August 28, 2004, at 12:26:25

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy?, posted by allisonf on August 28, 2004, at 0:15:03

Hi again Allisonf! Good to hear that things are going better! :-) I've wondered how everyone has been fairing too. My transference is no better than a year ago but I'm not fighting it so much anymore..today anyway. It is great to hear everyone elses experiences around this. Anyone else out there with tranference problems?

> Wow! I just cked in and saw this thread was going again! I often wonder how everyone has been--Dinah, fallsfall, Penny, Adia, Stebby. Hope you are all well. You were such a big support for me when I was posting a year ago.
>
> Corafree, sorry to hear you are going thru a rough time. I would be interested to hear about the DBT.
>
> Just an update: I am still in therapy, but the transference is a little better. I think I'm slowly starting to accept that I'm never going to be able to be anything but a client to my therapist. Honestly, I think I just hit on the right meds and that settled down my obsessive thoughts.
>
> I would be interested to hear how some of the original posters on this thread have fared with their transference issues.
>
> Hope everyone is doing well!

 

Re: Why bother with therapy? » allisonf

Posted by Dinah on August 28, 2004, at 17:34:36

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy?, posted by allisonf on August 28, 2004, at 0:15:03

Hi Allison! Glad to hear you're doing better. :)

I just glanced over my old posts to see how I'm doing in comparison to then, and I think things hadn't changed much. We had a comfortable therapeutic relationship then and have one now.

The only thing's that has changed is that I might be needing him a bit less now, and might be ready to go down to once a week sessions. I'm still really comfortable with the therapeutic relationship as it is. Not wanting anything more, but seeing value in it as a type of relationship to have in my life. Along with maintenance medications, it helps keep me on a more even keel, keeps troubles to a minimum, and allows me to function at my best in other areas in my life.

 

Re: Why bother with therapy?

Posted by allisonf on August 29, 2004, at 10:34:04

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy? » allisonf, posted by Dinah on August 28, 2004, at 17:34:36

Stebby and Dinah, It's so good to hear about how you're both doing. Glad to hear that you're doing better! :) Dinah, that's great that you're feeling good enough to go once/week. I remember you had a good relationship with your therapist.

My therapist has been on vacation for the past few weeks. Then I missed her b/c I was away the week before she left. In total, it's been a month since I've seen her. I do miss her a lot and still dream about her occasionally. I go again this Tuesday and I'm looking forward to seeing her. Have you guys been dealing with the "therapist on vacation" issue much this summer?

 

Re: Why bother with therapy? » allisonf

Posted by Dinah on August 29, 2004, at 13:26:09

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy?, posted by allisonf on August 29, 2004, at 10:34:04

My therapist has been gone for a few long weekends, but no long vacations. He's going for another long weekend at the end of September. I'm lucky so far, I guess. He was supposed to be gone for ten days for work, but it got cancelled.

A whole month! I guess that gave you a good chance to test your independence.

 

Re: Why bother with therapy? » Susan47

Posted by corafree on August 29, 2004, at 19:13:25

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy? » Starlight, posted by Susan47 on August 27, 2004, at 15:05:07

Susan, I somehow lost a lot of posts on this computer, away for a couple days. Was it you that I asked about your dosage of thyroid med? Sorry if it wasn't. Could ya' let me know if it was? Tks cf

> I don't think my therapist was trying to cultivate dependency, I think he was afraid of it. But it happened to some degree anyway, because of the transference.
> I just finished talking with him on the telephone very briefly, he was stiff and unnatural (I heard a door opening, maybe a client walked in) but it was a quick conversation, and you know what I was thinking when I hung up? "What a silly man".
> He has all his defenses up when I'm around. I'm sorry, but I think that's silly, I don't understand it, and I'm glad I don't see him anymore. Ah.
> I agree with your previous post too, Starlight. It's important to love yourself and be self-dependent; the more I do that the better I'm feeling. Of course, Babble does help a lot. It's nice to see you here again Starlight. Hasn't it been a while?

 

Re: Why bother with therapy? » Dinah

Posted by allisonf on August 29, 2004, at 22:01:52

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy? » allisonf, posted by Dinah on August 29, 2004, at 13:26:09

That's great that you haven't had to deal with the long vacation thing. When your therapist is gone for long weekends he has someone on call, right? Have you ever called the on call person? I did once last year, and she ended up calling my therapist on her vacation. That was embarrassing!! But then again, I was in a really bad depression...and I remember all of you on the bd saying that she wouldn't have set it up that way if she didn't want to be called in an emergency. That was really helpful to me at the time.

You talked about testing my independence and I do think this time it helped me to be away from therapy for awhile. I am thinking of cutting back a little on my therapy too. I don't know how long this idea will last or if I will even chicken out telling her I want to when I see her this week. But at least I'm starting to think about it. Did you say you were going less?

 

No Corafree it wasn't me and I can't remember who (nm)

Posted by Susan47 on August 29, 2004, at 22:14:04

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy? » Susan47, posted by corafree on August 29, 2004, at 19:13:25

 

Re: Why bother with therapy? » allisonf

Posted by Dinah on August 30, 2004, at 8:31:15

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy? » Dinah, posted by allisonf on August 29, 2004, at 22:01:52

I'm trying the idea on for size. It may be a while before it sticks. :)

My therapist doesn't have anyone on call, which hasn't been a problem yet because he generally gives me permission to leave a message on his cell phone. But when he's got an emergency and can't do that, the lack of a backup will be a problem. And he's too darn disorganized to think of those things in advance.

 

Re: Why bother with therapy?

Posted by Starlight on August 30, 2004, at 13:10:53

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy? ? Starlight, posted by stebby on August 27, 2004, at 20:33:36

I had basically out of control bullimia for about 7 years - which is really slow suicide, so in that respect I would say yes. While I wasn't cutting myself, I was depriving my body of every single calorie and got to the point where I passed out on the job and was hospitalized in the psych ward of an overseas hospital.

What cured me was a lot of investment in other things, like going to community college, getting heavily involved in music and just doing things that focued on others rather than myself. That's a huge part of it - getting rid of the self absorption. As long as you're self absorbed in how much you long to hurt yourself, then you can't fully engage in activities that you really enjoy. You've got to change the focus and take control of life in new directions, things you find mentally fun and stimulating. More stimulating than hurting yourself. It's interesting how we get stuck in feeling bad and when we finally feel good, we look back and say, 'wow, it was so much more work to feel bad'.

My actual 'cure' arrived overnight. I dreamt that my fiance at the time, walked in and caught me vomiting. He looked at me (remember this is a dream) and said 'Starlight, you've really got to stop this' and that morning, I swear, the urge to vomit was gone. Gone. It was like divine intervention. I went from throwing up as many as twenty times a day to being completely healed. But ultimately, it was the work I did that got me to the point of being healed.

But the most important thing, is finding something you enjoy more than hurting yourself. Maybe it's acting. Maybe getting involved in a different way of expressing your pain would be better. For me it was music.
xo
starlight

 

Re: Why bother with therapy? » Starlight

Posted by allisonf on August 30, 2004, at 15:16:19

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy?, posted by Starlight on August 30, 2004, at 13:10:53

I agree with you Starlight that if you can find things outside of yourself to help distract you from your pain that can be very beneficial. I think it's hard to do sometimes if you are in quite a lot of pain...you almost have to catch it at just the right time and say, go back to school or pursue a hobby right then. Anyways, sorry to hear it has been such a long road for you.

 

Re: Why bother with therapy? » Dinah

Posted by allisonf on August 30, 2004, at 15:20:41

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy? » allisonf, posted by Dinah on August 30, 2004, at 8:31:15

I know what you mean about "trying it on for size". I think I'm doing the same thing.

That's funny about your therapist being disorganized! Is it kind of in the absent minded professor way? Mine is pretty organized, and she usually calls back promptly...then on those occasions when she doesn't, I get all impatient waiting for a call back. That's great that you have his cellphone for emergencies. Do you talk to your therapist on the phone much? I used to when I was in the midst of crisis, but lately, I've been able to hold back.

 

Re: Why bother with therapy? » Starlight

Posted by stebby on August 30, 2004, at 20:38:13

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy?, posted by Starlight on August 30, 2004, at 13:10:53

Starlight,
Your story is inspirational. I'm glad to hear that you were able to conquer your desire to purge. I constantly struggle with a desire to cut, but as you say, the times when I am involved in things I enjoy doing and with other people, it's much easier. Sometimes I do much better than others. the self-absorbtion can be a problem. Fortunatley my occupation ( a teacher)forces me to keep from becoming too self-absorbed. How long have you been cured? Do you still struggle with the desire?

Tell me about your therapist's involvement in healing. Were you attached to him/her? Are you still seeing one, or have you completely written off therapy?
Stebby

> I had basically out of control bullimia for about 7 years - which is really slow suicide, so in that respect I would say yes. While I wasn't cutting myself, I was depriving my body of every single calorie and got to the point where I passed out on the job and was hospitalized in the psych ward of an overseas hospital.
>
> What cured me was a lot of investment in other things, like going to community college, getting heavily involved in music and just doing things that focued on others rather than myself. That's a huge part of it - getting rid of the self absorption. As long as you're self absorbed in how much you long to hurt yourself, then you can't fully engage in activities that you really enjoy. You've got to change the focus and take control of life in new directions, things you find mentally fun and stimulating. More stimulating than hurting yourself. It's interesting how we get stuck in feeling bad and when we finally feel good, we look back and say, 'wow, it was so much more work to feel bad'.
>
> My actual 'cure' arrived overnight. I dreamt that my fiance at the time, walked in and caught me vomiting. He looked at me (remember this is a dream) and said 'Starlight, you've really got to stop this' and that morning, I swear, the urge to vomit was gone. Gone. It was like divine intervention. I went from throwing up as many as twenty times a day to being completely healed. But ultimately, it was the work I did that got me to the point of being healed.
>
> But the most important thing, is finding something you enjoy more than hurting yourself. Maybe it's acting. Maybe getting involved in a different way of expressing your pain would be better. For me it was music.
> xo
> starlight

 

Re: Why bother with therapy?

Posted by Starlight on August 31, 2004, at 13:38:35

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy? ? Starlight, posted by stebby on August 30, 2004, at 20:38:13

I had been going to a therapist while I was in the throes of my eating disorder. I would go see her and then get in my car after my session and go to the nearest all you can eat buffet to binge and purge right after my session. I don't think that helped very much at all.

I think what helped me the most was going to community college and finally being recognized for my mind rather than my appearance. I grew up in Miami and my parents had a lot to do with why I developed the eating disorder. I binged and purged as a result of the severe emotional tumult in my home life and the physical and mental abuses I was getting hit with. I found eating to be extremely comforting, especially sweets and such. I gotta say I really hated living at this point.

In community college, I started succeeding and that was very exciting to me. Often times women with eating disorders and other types of self harm disorders are actually very bright but the pain of living is harsh, especially when you predominatly experience the superficiality of people instead of their deeper more intimate side.

In the first year post eating disorder, I threw up twice. Once was at thanksgiving with my family (go figure) and I can't recall when the second time was. But that's been it. It's actually been over ten years now and I'm happy with my body.

I did therapy for a really long time, but the reason I've written it off is that my last Pdoc broke confidentiality, he put information about my pot usage (which he promised would not leave his office) into my main medical record and coded and sent it to my insurance company. The things he wrote about me were extremely unkind and untrue and his betrayal is one of the most hurtful things I've ever experienced. I have a new, female Pdoc now who oversees my medication but that's it.

My files are kept in the central med records file of the hospital where I work. I had surgery back in December but didn't know that the information was in my main record (which followed me around throughout my surgery) so the doctors that handled me including the anesthesiologists, who I work very closely with, could all have seen that information, which could have a very negative impact on my career potential.

That was enough. I wish you all the best.
starlight

 

Re: Why bother with therapy?

Posted by Starlight on August 31, 2004, at 13:58:33

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy? ? Starlight, posted by stebby on August 30, 2004, at 20:38:13

Stebby,
One other thing, I have never been attached to any of my therapists. There was one I had along the way that I really liked and who I believe I might have worked really well with, but I'm good at respecting boundaries. I think I've always been aware that the nature of a relationship of a therapist is a fee based swinging door dependent on what he or she thinks your problems are. The last therapist I saw told me I didn't need a therapist, but just needed a good friend that I could talk to. He said that I was the most well functioning client that he's had and that I was pretty much wasting my money.

I take a lot of practical approaches though to trying to maintain good mental health, daily journaling, walking, yoga, music and lately resting!
All the best,
starlight

 

Re: Why bother with therapy? » stebby

Posted by corafree on August 31, 2004, at 16:32:07

In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy? » allisonf, posted by stebby on August 28, 2004, at 12:26:25

Hello friends. I'm running like a chix w/o head. DBT group therapy begins tomorrow from 5-7p. Yesterday had individual therapy. As I listened to her speaking about what to expect in group, she made quick mention of 'another' therapist taking over, then quickly said 'she doesn't plan going anywhere', but she planted the seed that becoming too attached only to her cannot happen.

She is great, (my daughter, my support, and very knowledgeable) really thought she was great too, so I know she is (never know for sure 'til someone else says so!%Q#). I'd like to let ya'll know re: DBT, and, selfishly, it could help me by re-entering info into my almost unabsorbable mind. Oh, my PCP (lends himself to involve in my emotional issues) asked me if I'd ever been on Wellbutrin. Cannot recall if ? before/after I mentioned my P said I need take ADD test. Eff-XR, Traz, a tinge of Klonopin (my cocktail), what would Wellbutrin do, I wonder. Yrs ago tried it; next morn' felt very heavy/clouded .. tried 1-2d more and quit. Do not need to add to my fatigue. Need Pill Book. cf

> Hi again Allisonf! Good to hear that things are going better! :-) I've wondered how everyone has been fairing too. My transference is no better than a year ago but I'm not fighting it so much anymore..today anyway. It is great to hear everyone elses experiences around this. Anyone else out there with tranference problems?
>
> > Wow! I just cked in and saw this thread was going again! I often wonder how everyone has been--Dinah, fallsfall, Penny, Adia, Stebby. Hope you are all well. You were such a big support for me when I was posting a year ago.
> >
> > Corafree, sorry to hear you are going thru a rough time. I would be interested to hear about the DBT.
> >
> > Just an update: I am still in therapy, but the transference is a little better. I think I'm slowly starting to accept that I'm never going to be able to be anything but a client to my therapist. Honestly, I think I just hit on the right meds and that settled down my obsessive thoughts.
> >
> > I would be interested to hear how some of the original posters on this thread have fared with their transference issues.
> >
> > Hope everyone is doing well!
>
>


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