Posted by DaisyM on December 30, 2003, at 1:17:31
In reply to Re: I'm lost ... but not so far away... » DaisyM, posted by Kalamatianos on December 30, 2003, at 0:18:38
Ok -- picture actual invokes a smile...made me laugh as he would probably ask me why I "needed" to order him around! :) Definately in color.
However, not that I've ever had a maid or a butler but I see myself as one of those people who would consistently emphasize equality and always *ask* politely for what I wanted. That is if I didn't insist on getting it myself. And then pay them anyway. LOL.
I don't know how to see myself as "enough" for my Therapist especially since he spent 1/2 of the session today trying to convince me that "my needs count too" and I needed to not see them as "selfish" (my term) but as healthy. He wants me to speak up about something and not just make the best of it. Which I would do easily if it was about anything other than me. *sigh*
Can I ask the butler to go get mochas? I think it is going to be a long night.
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