Posted by pinkeye on March 3, 2005, at 18:45:07
In reply to Re: missing my ex t » pinkeye, posted by Dinah on March 3, 2005, at 18:34:53
> But on some level, a termination feels like abandonment. To everyone I think, and no matter what the circumstances. Logically you know that it had nothing to do with how he felt about you. But the very act of termination probably causes a very little part of all of us cry "What did I do to make Mom/Dad/Therapist leave????"
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Yeah that is so very true. I do feel very abandoned. I feel I did everything right, yet he never liked me.it is very confusing. I was the one who initially told him I wanted to stop writing and keep only minimal contact. I was the one who told him that writing to him was taking a lot of emotional involvment for me. But now I feel abandoned.
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