Posted by Dinah on June 17, 2005, at 7:50:04
In reply to Re: I'm afraid but I'm also afraid to post about i, posted by Jazzed on June 16, 2005, at 23:13:58
> Is it possible he's doing this because he realizes how conflicted you are, and if he extends a hand, that you'll reach out, grab on, stay with therapy and NOT go back to school?
I doubt it. He's not happy about the idea of reducing to once a week therapy, or losing touch with my emotional self. He thinks school is an impulsive, ill thought out decision, born of depakote-withdrawal induced hypomania. I keep arguing that I can't be hypomanic because I am sleeping well enough and am not tingly and hypersensitive.
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> Why don't you ask him why he isn't giving you anything to grab onto? Tell him how angry you're feeling.It's definitely me who is pulling away, not him. But I am angry with him about that, and intend to tell him so. I don't think it will do any good though. He is who he is, and I like him that way. I can't expect him to be other than himself just because I need it right now.
poster:Dinah
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