Posted by pinkeye on June 20, 2005, at 14:55:06
I need some direction on how to proceed with things.. These are the issues.. Any wise women out there willing to navigate me??
1. Issue with my ex T.. How do I begin to move on?
2. Confusing my ex T with my dad.. What is really bohtering me ? - is it my relationship with my dad and csa and this secret Freudian idea of wanting to have a relationship with my father that I am projecting on to my ex T? How do I let go of this and start looking at my husband (who is just a husband) instead of longing for a paternal+husband figure in relationship with men?
I feel the real reason for my confusion is my longing for a paternal relationship combined with a husband relationship. Because of my dad's continuing csa for several years.. How do I begin to resolve that?
I also feel the reason I have this problem with my ex T is somehow deep down I confuse him for my dad. That is why I long for a continuing relationship with him.
How do I begin to navigate myself out of this web?
poster:pinkeye
thread:516060
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20050615/msgs/516060.html