Posted by pinkeye on June 20, 2005, at 17:39:46
In reply to I need some direction, posted by pinkeye on June 20, 2005, at 14:55:06
An interesting idea that my new T gave me is that, I should get a divorce and find someone who is like my father. She said maybe that is the solution to my problems.
I really like my husband nowadays.. I think he is getting to be a very good person.. and I really think I want to stay in this marriage..
But there is this desire to be with someone little older, and somehow I get very attracted to people who display a mixture of fatherliness and husbandishness towards me.. And I feel very restless.
My new T says maybe the right solution is to marry someone like that (maybe some one who is older) instead of trying to make myself fall more in love with my husband.. While I want to work on my basic problem and continue with my husband. I even sometimes feel like telling my husband everything - about my ex T, about my issues with my fahters, the supposed csa and how it affects me etc.
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