Posted by Voce on November 21, 2005, at 23:19:13
In reply to Details (very long), posted by 10derHeart on November 19, 2005, at 19:10:24
Hi 10der,
I tried long and hard to come up with something meaningful, groundbreaking snd earthshaking to say, but I'm finding I don't have much more than the other lovely, helpful words you've already been given. You are such a strong person, and I hear the pain and frustration in your words, but also the hope, the understanding, the wisdom and the insight you also have into yourself and him. I can imagine how painful, how terrible and how devastating it must have been to hear him say all those things to you, and how rejected you may have felt.
But it sounds as though he is trying so very hard to take care of you, in his own squirrely way, you know? Who was it in this thread who said that T's have limits too...that is a terrible thing to find out, that our beloved T can go this far and no further.....
And yet, perhaps this limitation will be so very beneficial in your sessions...who knows? And he's still there, my dear, he's still with you. That is something.
I hope you are still doing okay. Please be extra good to yourself this week, and I hope your Thanksgiving is lovely. Even if your T may be a turkey. Haha.
poster:Voce
thread:579218
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20051118/msgs/581108.html