Posted by gardenergirl on May 2, 2006, at 16:44:39
In reply to Re: So confused and upset » Daisym, posted by Pfinstegg on May 2, 2006, at 15:30:45
Hi Daisy,
I hope you're feeling better today. When I read your post about your husband going to therapy, I felt some recognition. I think it's perfectly natural to worry about it and to feel that they might be "telling on you". It took me awhile to relax about my husband's therapy, because I worried about what his T would think of me. But I eventually came to be okay about it and reminded myself that even though she might be only hearing one side, her job was to help him, not to judge or not judge me.And I'm sure it adds to any conflicting feelings you may be experiencing about your decision to leave. That can't have been an easy decision, and I'm sure that you can come up with "justification" for going back. I think there are valid reasons to stay and valid reasons to go. And when it's not so hugely tipped towards one side (although maybe it is), it's a tough choice. And one that still pulls at you, I would bet.
However, I have faith in you and your decisions. I support you in this and in what you decide in the future. I wish I could make it all easier.
((((daisy))))
gg
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