Posted by fairywings on May 3, 2006, at 7:13:59
In reply to Re: So confused and upset, posted by Daisym on May 2, 2006, at 21:55:20
>And the other trail leads to his therapist telling him that my therapy is bad for our marriage and so if I would stop seeing my therapist, everything will be the same again. And somehow, someway, he figures out how to get me to stop therapy.
Your therapist is there to help you understand and know it was the marriage that was bad for you. The therapy only helped you admit it to yourself. I'm sure your T would fight back just as hard for you to do what's best for you, no matter what kind of pressure you get from your husband.
Like you said, your T is only telling you back how bad it's really been. Don't lose sight of that. I'm sure he's right....it was a healthy decision, but feeling ambivalence has to be really normal. Stick to your guns! Daisy was withering.
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