Too Much Mom, Not Enough of My T

Posted by TherapyGirl on May 26, 2011, at 20:42:25

For decades now, I have severely limited the time I spend with my mother. All of that has gone out the window in the wake of my father's death almost 3 months ago. I spent most of this week with her and I am at the breaking point. I feel obligated to share with my siblings in the burden of spending time with her and yet I know it is not at all healthy for me to spend this much time with her. I get so enraged and she is so very obnoxious and still abusive, albeit in a more subtle way.
And spending time with her makes me miss MY T (i.e., not current T) all that much more.
I'm sad and torn and done with my mother. Just not sure what to do about it.

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