Posted by larryhoover on June 1, 2011, at 21:08:09
In reply to Too Much Mom, Not Enough of My T, posted by TherapyGirl on May 26, 2011, at 20:42:25
> For decades now, I have severely limited the time I spend with my mother... yet I know it is not at all healthy for me to spend this much time with her.
Those are your truths, TG. Your feelings about your mom should not be subject to reinterpretation or questioning by anyone. Even by you. I feel strongly about this. Toxic relationships are simply toxic, and whatever duty or guilt or other concept puts you into that vulnerable situation is not good for you either.
Finding something better to do with your time is better for you. The moment you find the interaction to be a burden, you find a reason to leave. And you don't come back until you're ready. Even if that's never.
Lar
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