Posted by AbandonedAgain on November 20, 2011, at 20:13:57
In reply to Re: I miss my therapist so much it hurts (very long), posted by peddidle on July 19, 2009, at 18:57:14
Hi-
I know this is years after this posting, so I'm doubtful that I will get a response. I was just looking on the internet for some sort of empathetic response to the situation I'm in, which is similar to yours. Actually, I was looking for some sort of good coping mechanism to help with the fact that I will soon be losing my therapist, as I'm graduating from college. Anyways, I came across your story, and it reads just like mine. Only, this happened to you a couple years ago, and it's happening to me now, and I don't know how to deal with it. I will miss her SO much, there aren't even words for it. I was hoping you'd have some words of wisdom, now that you're a bit out from the experience itself. So I can kinda say, "See? She (he?) did it, and they felt just as bad as me, so I can do it too." I don't know, probably silly of me to even think of it, but guess I'm feeling a bit desperate.
I've been seeing my counselor for only a year, and this May, I'll have to say goodbye forever. For ever. Do you know how long that is? It kills me to even think about it. I break down into tears out of nowhere, like at the grocery store, because I randomly think of her. I don't know how to make it stop, or move past it. Any advice at all would be appreciated.
I do hope you're doing better now.
poster:AbandonedAgain
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