Posted by DaisyM on January 16, 2004, at 13:56:40
In reply to Re: Due to the mature nature of this post... » Adia, posted by antigua on January 16, 2004, at 13:28:16
Thank you for sharing that. I've become very adapt at stuffing all those bad associations away. But right now, because I've pulled so much out and told someone else for the first time ever, sex is really hard. I'm shocked by what is being triggered because I thought I knew and remembered it all. My Therapist says "you have to tell your husband how this is effecting you." I can't. It isn't his problem and he has needs too, so I just shut the images out. Since my hubby is pretty sick on/off it isn't an issue all the time, or even often.
I'm glad I'm not the only one. And I could never get a massage, no way, never-ever! Ick!
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