Posted by Aphrodite on June 18, 2005, at 17:43:11
In reply to Re: Daisy, how are you today?, posted by Daisym on June 18, 2005, at 14:19:10
I'm sorry your weekend is so tough. And husbands . . . if only a little attention is diverted from them, they have to pout. I realize I'm generalizing here, but that sounds like that is his issue.
I really like the idea of planting the rose bush; it's something concrete you can do. Could you stay home and do something like that tomorrow? That may not feel safe, but it's probably better than the triggers hangin' with the inlaws with a brooding husband can bring.
I hope you can find some peace. It's so hard to spend your life serving, doing the "right things", making the sacrifical choices all the while wondering when it's going to bring some reward to you. I wish you could just cut all ties with your father and never look back, but then there are your children, your siblings, etc. It just shouldn't be this hard. It's not fair.
Do you see your T on Monday? Hang in there until you can connect with him again. (((Daisy)))
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