Posted by Racer on July 14, 2007, at 11:40:07
In reply to Re: he changed his chair!!!!, posted by sunnydays on July 14, 2007, at 11:20:41
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> ***** I would die if my T was in a recliner. I would be afraid he'd fall asleep! I'm already afraid of that in this new chair, that maybe it's too comfortable. Uggh... more to talk about.
>A T I saw many, many years ago -- nearly 20, now -- did fall asleep in a session with me. At the time, I felt a huge upset and resentment, but didn't say anything about it. Just went away upset, hurt, ashamed, feeling about an inch tall. NOT a good situation.
My current T, though, is always too obviously engaged when we're in session. And, 20 years on, with this T, I think I could talk about it if it happened. But, I also trust that it won't happen.
Damn. Now I'm thinking about it. Now I'm maybe going to end up having to say something to her about it, warn her even...
But the old T also f*rted once in session, and it was very stinky, and I didn't mention that, either... Maybe that evened the score...
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