Posted by ForeverWounded on August 31, 2007, at 16:03:17
In reply to Re: Forced Termination and Hatred *Trigger SI* » ForeverWounded, posted by Dory on August 31, 2007, at 10:43:29
Hi Dori:
Thank you for taking the time to write me. I am sorry that you went through such a crappy forced termination, and over money to boot. That is REALLY hurtful. It is like saying - you are only worth this much (to me anyway.)
I am curious about this statement you made:
"It isn't your birthright to suffer for his poor decisions."
Are you sure it is not my birthright? It sure feels this way. And how can I NOT suffer from his poor decisions. I am already suffering from his poor decisions and only foresee that I will continue to suffer from his decision, poor or not. I do not see how it is avoidable.
"i agree that it's horrid and wrong for a T to do what he is doing. There are so many ways he could have helped you and i can't imagine why he would be so blind to your strong attachment. That was the one thing i did give my old T sh*t for... he should have"
I am a little unclear - do you think my strong attachment to him is wrong, or the way he is handling it?
Thank you for your help and encouragement. I want to go look for that poster that you mentioned now. I hope things are going better for you now.
Yours truly,
ForeverWounded
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