Posted by LadyBug on August 17, 2005, at 0:53:49 [reposted on August 18, 2005, at 7:18:17 | original URL]
In reply to Is it ok to have a kid with marital issues?, posted by orchid on August 16, 2005, at 20:13:19
A baby will complicate the marrital issues. I had my first baby at 28 and felt like an old lady. Looking back it wasn't that old at all. If your not sure if you should have a baby, then you shouldn't do it. Babies are fun to love, there's nothing quite like it. But they are a lot of work. Think it through carefully. Can you take care of a baby if your marriage doesn't survive? There is no perfect time to have kids, you have them it changes your life forever. Have them because you are ready to have them, and not just because your husband wants them.
Good luck with your decision. We all make mistakes and it doesn't have to be a perfect decision.
LadyBug
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