Posted by orchid on August 17, 2005, at 14:41:51 [reposted on August 18, 2005, at 7:18:18 | original URL]
In reply to Re: Is it ok to have a kid with marital issues? » orchid, posted by Tamar on August 17, 2005, at 13:48:02
I will wait a few more months atleast and see how things are.
The thing is, I don't think I am ever getting out of my marriage. No matter what happens. We have been through pure hell, and we have managed to remain together, and we still have lot of affection for each other. And we have plenty of good times.
But I sometimes still feel unsettled, and there are problems too. And that is a fact.
I wnat to conceive a chidl when I am happy, and settled and know in my heart "This is the guy whose child I wnat to have" kind of feeling for my husband. But I don't know if I will ever reach that doubtless state in my marriage. But postponing it seems to be a like an endless thing. What happens if I postpone it for 2 more years, and at that time it is too late?
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