Posted by Dinah on August 17, 2005, at 9:19:08 [reposted on August 18, 2005, at 7:18:17 | original URL]
In reply to Is it ok to have a kid with marital issues?, posted by orchid on August 16, 2005, at 20:13:19
Take it from me, a child takes all those little fault lines in a marriage and widens them an incredible amount. Especially since there is violence in your marriage, and you aren't sure you love your husband.
Or you could ask yourself this question. Take a look at your marriage and ask if it's the safe secure nest you want to prepare for your child. Or if you were a child, would you like to grow up in the atmosphere of your home? Would it be healthy? Would you feel safe?
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