Posted by Toph on March 6, 2005, at 14:12:46
In reply to Re: Losing Control » Toph, posted by Susan47 on March 6, 2005, at 11:40:50
Susan, I confess that I can only imagine the violation of rape, and I have struggled to understand your obsession with your ex-T, but is it possible that the rapes that you experienced left a gaping hole/wound in your psyche (soul, self, I'm not sure of the correct word) that was later filled by you ex-T (theory also calls this the T lending his ego)? Then when you terminated with him, you hadn't replaced the internal support that he provided with your own healed self/ego, so that when he was gone the hole/wound reopened?
Did that question make any sense?
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