Posted by lovelorn on December 8, 2007, at 9:48:02
In reply to Yelling at your T?, posted by Maxime on December 7, 2007, at 21:49:13
No, I've not yelled at my T. I have felt feelings of anger though but somehow my T good at keeping a certain distance in our discussions and I am pretty good, even when feeling certain emotions, at realizing that "she" is not the one I am angry with when I go through certain emotions. It's more like being angry at the situation I am in, that I have to be dealing with certain emotions but her and I knowing I do have to deal with them. I can imagine if someone is dealing with a lot of anger, they may transfer that onto the T and may end up yelling. I think T's know the difference and can handle such a situation, that something needs to be resolved. I would hope though it is not a regular thing, then I would say the patient is blurring the lines too much and needs help making the distinction of who exactly they are angry at and why.
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