Posted by Maxime on December 8, 2007, at 18:19:17
In reply to I don't think that's extreme... » Dinah, posted by Racer on December 8, 2007, at 16:33:30
He says that although I keep people at distance, that I still want human contact and that not having it is what is making me depressed (????). Not only does he thing I need a boyfriend, but other friends as well. I just feel like the biggest loser because I don't have many friends and I am still single. I feel worse about it when he brings it up EVERY time I see him.
Maxime
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> I had a strong reaction to that, too. That doesn't sound right to me, not at all.
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> Maxie, I agree that it's worth asking him WHY he keeps reverting to this topic. Finding a boyfriend as a "cure" for what ails you sounds like something from high school -- NOT a real world solution for ANYTHING.
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> I'm sorry he's bringing that up with you, and I wonder why? It's well worth asking him about it.
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