Posted by Lamdage on June 14, 2011, at 15:58:48
In reply to Angry, posted by Annabelle Smith on May 18, 2011, at 14:29:33
Alice Miller is what i recommended in your first thread;) I feel extra smart today.
No seriously.. im almost done with her book "Free From Lies" and since i liked it from the start, Banished Knowledge, The Drama.. and The truth will set you free are on my shelf already.
You say you feel rage and hatred towards your therapist.. i warned you already in the first fred, it seems very strange to me that he encourages you to do something that he calls "surrender". Therapy should not be about defeat or surrender. This is a major red flag to me.
I bet your therapist tries to talk you out of your strong resentful emotions toward your mother.. if not overtly then covertly. Those people are literally everywhere. While talking helps a great deal, talking with the wrong people can be just as destructive.
Alice Miller will be a good read for you! I think that despite all the resentment it may arouse in you you will gain insight and feel more hopeful about all this.
Hold onto these feelings as overwhelming as they may seem. They can be your guideI hope you will soon find someone to talk to, someone who values your views and feelings, basically who values you for the wonderful person you are! Do not listen to anyone telling you different. I am glad you feel rage and hatred towards this.
Refractory atypical double depression, Severe
Social Anxiety disorder, medium
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, severe
Attention Deficit Syndrome, dreamy kind, mild
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