Posted by underthecs on November 11, 2004, at 20:03:20
In reply to T's address, posted by littleone on November 11, 2004, at 15:42:19
I've done the drive-by thing. The guilt was horrible, and I finally confessed. Luckily, he was not bothered by it at all, and understood. And sometimes when I really, really wish he were there, I may do a quick drive-by to sort of get him in me to carry on through the week, if that makes sense. I don't think it's a big deal, if you talk about it with your therapist. Keeping it a "secret" makes it much harder on you than it probably actually is. No, I don't have a solution...just wanted you to hear that I've been there, done that, and survived it.
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