Posted by Dinah on November 1, 2004, at 18:08:03
In reply to Re: maybe I'll go back.....but with conditions » shrinking violet, posted by Daisym on October 29, 2004, at 18:35:36
Mine wouldn't allow a list of rules or conditions either. He'd fold his arms and tune me out. But if I talk about things in a conversational way, and discuss why I'd like change here or there, he often does change. I always call him trainable, and that's true to a point. But he wouldn't call it trainable, and he wouldn't say he was agreeing to do things my way. He'd say he was invested in the relationship and was willing to work on it.
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