Posted by crushedout on May 4, 2005, at 20:27:17
In reply to Re: How do you talk about sex? » crushedout, posted by Tamar on May 3, 2005, at 4:37:58
Hi Tamar,I could really relate to your post. I tend to be kind of vulgar and flirtatious, too, when I talk about sex with friends, so it makes sense that that might feel weird with my T, with whom I have a unidirectional, professional relationship.
I also tend to be vague. The clinical terms disturb me. I hate them. But I also feel uncomfortable using *really* vulgar terms.
I wish we could use concrete examples in this thread. Why am I embarrassed to? I mean, with asterisks, of course. OK, so, for example I would always say "have sex" instead of "f---" but "have sex" sounds sooo boring. But I would feel too weird saying "f---." That's just one example.
Thanks to everyone for their posts, which were truly fascinating. I'd love to continue this conversation.
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