Posted by sunny10 on October 28, 2004, at 15:33:09
In reply to Re: she sent me a card :-( » Rigby, posted by shrinking violet on October 27, 2004, at 21:25:28
SV- you said
"Hm, no, I don't even think I really started. My T and I didn't "do" much therapy...or at least it didn't feel like it. I didn't say much, so, it made it hard. I probably am hurting myself (I'm good at that, at least). I'm such an idiot too...if I had just responded TO HER IN SESSION to the stuff she said, instead of having these latent reactions, this could have been avoided. I always do that...I always get hurt or angry or upset at something that happened during session *after* session, and then I usually lash out at her in email, or I quit with her...*sigh* I'm so unbelievably sick of myself. "I'm wondering if you have a fear of confrontation which is making all of your interactions difficult. (You mentioned that you'd "quit" a nutritionist, too, I think?)
I have this, too, and "not much therapy got done" is a statement that I can make, too.
I'm wondering whether we can suggest therapy IM sessions... we seem to be better at typing our feelings, with no one's face reacting to what we say....True that it wouldn't "cure us" of these insecurities and fears, but it might help get us started until face to face was possible, thus helpful to a "cure".
Gargenergirl, what do you think about that idea? You think insurance companies would ever go for IM sessions???
-Sunny10
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