Posted by Jen Star on July 8, 2005, at 20:30:16
In reply to Need help figuring out feelings..... please?, posted by LittleGirlLost on July 8, 2005, at 10:07:43
I'm sorry you're feeling upset! I would be too, in the same circumstances. I'm glad she was not in London, though - that is a big relief.
It seems frustrating that she agreed to tell you, and must have had some inkling of what it meant to you, but then teased you (sort of, in the therapeutic kind of way!) and you never got the answer from her. To ME, that seems kind of mean.
Making you guess is weird and silly and if she does that, she should tell you right away if you're right or wrong! Sorry if I'm beign too hard on her; I don't know her at all and of course I'm just thinking of how I would feel and act in the same situation.
I guess I'd feel dissed, in your shoes -- like you went out on a limb by asking, but then she didn't even answer you. She should tell you where she's going, or be upfront and say "I'm not comfortable sharing such personal details about my life with clients, but I assure you I'll be safe and careful, and I hope that you have a great time here while I'm away." (or something like that!)
Hmmmmm. Do you think you'll bring it up for discussion when she returns? Do you think you'll tell her that you called, and about your feelings when you heard it was Germany?
Have a great weekend!
JenStar
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